why people fear extreme extroverts?
why can't they digest the fact traditionalism is not always right......
why are the frank people always considered an outcast in the society?....are people too afraid to know the facts about them when someone just puke it on their face?...yea the way can be wrong and bit direct but the truth remains intact.
many a times with this gift of frankness i have lost many of the buddies which u can just say that it was always better i haven't got them anyway but you just can't judge the world by their level of intelligence isn't so? or their guts to accept the bitter truth every time i say something?
the feelings, the emotions by which u always wanted to connect to them become insipid in just a matter of second. This is wat we have desired in life? to be disconnected from the world just because we are too matured in front of them?
i still question myself sometimes my frankness has always reaped me many friends but i ended up having faith of negligible number.
At the end of the day i am always satisfied at least i am not a poser. When i stand in front of a mirror i can still see that Pankaj smiling back at me not a conman hiding it's identity!!!!
you tell me is it a sin or a gift?
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- venomouspunk
- a fat possessive, psychic (yea m serious!!!), mentally stable brat trying to pen down his dreams to make it much more clear to people who never understood him......damn who cares!!!
jus dat u have given me an option i wud say it is a sin often committed by gifted people.
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ReplyDeleteThats wat dude you will never know me:-).......and you think you know hell lot of things about me but the truth is you know nothing:-)
ReplyDeleteWhy should i know u?
ReplyDeletewhy r u telling and arguing this all bloody stuff if ur extrovert and debating with me on the topic of knowing ....if u wer really extrovert then u would not have debated with me. Extrovert and philanthropic person dont cry out to world wat they are and they wil not argue with anyone if some one like me doubt on it. if u r extrovert then ur extrovert... why r u then crying to world and arguing with me....first u should not talk about it ( if u r genuine extrovert then this discussion will never be get started fron u ).....if someone try to drag u in this debate then u shold just smile and accept watever he is saying like u r not extrovert ....u should not tel people that u r extrovert but people should talk it....and it automatically comes into genuine extrover person
just by telling that u dont know me u r leaving logic behind.....talk in some logical language....
He he he he bhediye:-) i pity on ya sometimes.......first of all thanks for the compliment.....get the topic properly i never ever mentioned introverts in my blog neither i said any negative stuffs about them......neither i am crying....blog is not a place where i want sympathy of people or trying to show myself....if you refer to my about me that was just the clarity of thoughts thats its not about knowing me!
ReplyDeleteyea well 1st of all absolutely amazing writeup...
ReplyDeletegotta agree with u on that by being frank with others and by 'calling a spade a spade', you save urself from being the poser...
but then hey .. what u believe to be the truth .. may only be your thinking
and not necessarily the truth...
and yea by being overtly blunt, you may create more harm...
for example you go and tell a lame man that he is lame... dude he already knows ... and you have only reminded him of his sad reality...
but then there is another side... in case of jerks who think they are god's gift to this earth... it becomes a necessity to remind such airheads and smack their faces with the bitter truth...
so all in all gotta agree 100 % with agnostic vagabond... its a sin committed by gifted people... as far as you are concerned... asking yourself if u belong in this category would be better....
and yea as per my personal thinking that the qualtiy of extrovertness is definity a blessing... but excessive extrovertism can definitely be detrimental to yourself and those around ...
well leaving all aside it struck to me that if the author can take a conversation between
ReplyDelete"extrovert frank and clear bandhaa with introvert knowledgeable and also clear bandhaa"
Or something else where two people of different personalities converse. May be then he can clarify better that the fear he is talking about is the vice or virtue of another person not the 1st person(i mean here the author type)and perhaps may conclude "So y give a damn abt others fears "